Hi M,
At your request I have consulted the cards with a very indepth reading for you.
As you have said yourself in your query that the spark does seem to have gone out of your marriage. However, the cards indicate that there seems to be a stormy six months ahead within your marriage, but that you and your husband will work through things and that you will rekindle the marriage.
Your reading shows that you are also discontent within your work environment, however as there seems to be many changes occurring around you, the next couple of months see things settling down in that sector(you do love the aspecct of work allowing you freedom and independence)
As for the other gentleman, he comes across as a very nice man within your reading. He himself has had relationship problems, although there is a huge emotional/sexual chemistry between you both, it's really the fact that he listens to you that draws you to him. This is a quality you don't feel that your husband is giving at present or for a long time.
The cards are indicating that within the next six months you will have settled within your marriage again. As you know that your husband does love both you and your daughter but has problems showing the softer side of his emotions.
It will be possible to keep this other man as a friend for a while until both your paths take a different course.